Here are the comments that I made at the Recognition Ceremony in June, before reading the poem.
Ladies and Gentlemen of E.T.
Richardson
Middle School’s class of 2006 and Springfield High School’s
class of 2010, friends, family members, teachers, administrators and school staff, I must thank you. It has been my honor
to work with you for the past two years. Students, we call tonight your Recognition Ceremony because we are here to recognize
you and all of your many accomplishments and achievements. I think you know that there are others to recognize as well. To
the parents, guardians and family of our students, I recognize you for your openness, honesty, your strength and your love
for your children. To all of the teachers, administrators, coaches, counselors and school staff that have helped mold these
students, I recognize you. Thank you for your dedication to their futures, as students and as people. To my students, I give
you my thanks and my respect. I have had the privilege of walking with you through the peaks and valleys of the last two years.
As you are being recognized, it should not be overlooked that you have faced challenges for which there are no formal awards.
You have lost things and people who are important to you, you have triumphed, you have failed, you have made difficult decisions
with outcomes both good and bad, you have hurt, you have laughed, you have cried, you have grown and…you have made it
through middle school. I look forward to continuing this journey with you and bearing witness to all of the ups and downs
that come next.
At this time, I must interject
a short story. Those of our music students who went to Hershey Park this year know that I LOVE roller coasters! Some of us
went on again and again and again. There is a quote from the movie Parenthood that I think explains why and I must share it
before I continue: A Grandmother in the movie says: “I loved roller coasters. I always wanted to go again. You
know, it was just so interesting to me that a ride could make me so frightened, so scared, so sick, so excited, and so thrilled
all together! Some didn't like it. They went on the merry-go-round. That just goes around. Nothing. I like the roller coaster.
You get more out of it.”
Considering that quote and
with respect for the journey that lies ahead, I have written the following for each and every one of you:
Roller Coaster
Ride
In life, and on rollercoasters,
we expect certain things
But we aren’t always
ready for all that it brings
There are very steep climbs
and therefore big drops
Sometimes loop-dee-loops
and often flip-flops
Going up is exciting and
the top is the best
But that’s just a brief
a moment and, well, you know the rest…
Down you go quickly, there’s
no turning back
The cart’s moving forward,
it follows its track.
The highs are so high and
the lows really low
The sharp turns are confusing.
Which way will you go?
Some fear it so much that
they choose not to try
So they hang by themselves
and sit, waiting, nearby
Some ride in the front with
their arms in the air
Yelling, “Yeah! Bring
it on!” but even they get a scare.
Some try it just once and
they have a bad ride
So they won’t try again,
there’s that fear deep inside.
Despite all their worries,
some keep trying a lot
And they learn as they travel
how much courage they’ve got
Sometimes it’s so bumpy
or jerky or rough
You leave with a headache,
thinking I’ve had enough!
Sometimes you feel sick,
and you wish it would end
Then you see the huge smile
on the face of a friend
Together you scream and continue
the trip
And onward you go into a
another big flip
You’re lucky, you know,
to have people who care
We’ll call them technicians,
adults who are there
They support and encourage,
reassure you its fine
They teach and they guide
you, they keep you in line
They work for your safety
and watch as you go
They see you up high and
they see you down low
They remind you to be careful
and always choose well
They care for you even when
it’s hard to tell
They’re good for your
worries and for your shaky knees
They cheer for you as you
fly higher than trees
There are so many technicians,
some there and some here
Who are
working for you as you ride far and near
They
can only prepare you, the ride is your own
But with
big ups and downs you are never alone.
As the
journey continues, sometimes scary and fun
You will
laugh, maybe cry before you are done
Just
remember the end will come quickly and then
You won’t
have a ride to take over again
So enjoy
this great trip as it takes you around
We’re
all cheering you on from our place on the ground.
The
end of the ride isn’t what we recall
The trip
that you take, with its ups and its downs,
Now that
is what matters to us most of all!
Congratulations
to all of you and I look forward to what is around this next big corner!